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Marilyn R. LaFlair

Ogdensburg- Marilyn R. LaFlair, 78, of 515 Jersey Ave, died peacefully on Friday, December 13, 2019 at home surrounded by her loved ones and Hospice of St. Lawrence Valley.  She was born on December 28, 1940 in Ogdensburg, NY to the late Frederick E. & Genevieve (Fortin) LaFlair. She graduated from St. Mary’s Academy, in Ogdensburg. She retired after 28 years of dedicated service from the St. Lawrence Psychiatric Center where she was employed as a Mental Health Therapy Aide.

Marilyn is survived by her companion, Bill Crump, Ogdensburg; a daughter Denise M. Carpenter, Grovetown, Georgia; and a son, Ronald J. Lesperance, Ogdensburg; and several grandchildren, Jordin Marie Carpenter, Mackenzie Marilyn Rose Carpenter, Tona Marie, Jenni Measheaw-Vaughan, John Measheaw Jr. and many nieces and nephews and beloved cousins.

She is predeceased by two children: Jenny Lynn (Measheaw) Sutton and Robert A. Lesperance, Jr.

Marilyn is a member of the Notre Dame Catholic Church.  She enjoyed knitting, crocheting baby clothes, ceramics and an occasional run to the casino.

Memorial Donations in her memory can be made to the St. Lawrence Valley SPCA, 6718 NY-68, Ogdensburg, NY 13669.

Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, December 17, 2019 from 3:00pm-6:00pm at the LaRue & Pitcher Funeral Home Inc., located at 324 New York Avenue, Ogdensburg, NY 13669. A Funeral Mass will be held on Wednesday, December 18, 2019 at 11:00am with the Reverend Joseph A. Morgan, St. Mary’s Pastor, will be held at the Notre Dame Catholic Church, located at 125 Ford Ave, Ogdensburg, NY 13669. Burial will follow in the Notre Dame Cemetery.  Online condolences in her memory can be made at www.laruepitcherfuneralhome.com


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I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Marilyn. My heart goes out to the family.

theresa vine Dec 18 2019 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Marilyn LaFlair

Cynthia J. Williams Dec 17 2019 12:00 AM

Denise and Ron and all the members of your family ,I am so sorry for the loss of your mom ,please except my scincere condolences at the most difficult time

Lori Lalonde Dec 17 2019 12:00 AM

Condolences to the Lesperance and Crump families at this time of great sorrow. Marilyn's smile would light up a room and her laugh was contagious. Once her friend, always her friend.

Barbara J Michael Dec 16 2019 12:00 AM

My deepest condolences to the family of Marilyn LaFlair. I am so very sorry for your loss! I
Ron, Sending you hugs.. If you need to talk I am always here for you any time! You're in my thoughts and prayers!!
Wendi Clouthier

Wendi Clouthier Dec 16 2019 12:00 AM

Bill sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers to the family

Tim Durand Dec 16 2019 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Marilyn LaFlair

Kayla Bean Dec 15 2019 12:00 AM

Denise & Ron, Im saddened by the news of the loss of your mother and my cousin. Marilyn was a neat lady and she was loved by all. She suffers no more and shes home with the Lord. Marilyn, may you suffer no more and say hello to Uncle Fred & Aunt Jenny and Gram for me. Until we meet once more. God Bless

David LaFave Dec 15 2019 12:00 AM

Marilyn, always quick with a smile and never forgot a name! You will be missed my friend. Gary Premo

Gary Premo Dec 15 2019 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Marilyn LaFlair

tammy towsley Dec 14 2019 12:00 AM

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